38 responses to Back atcha
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    Char
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 07:20)

    “Betcha can’t catch me!!!”

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    Alice Aber
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 07:30)

    Neer neer neer neer!! (sp)

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    MaryAnn Pepe
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 07:43)

    Nah! Nah! Nah! We don’t have to worry about gas prices like you!!

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    Richard from Amish Stories
    Comment on "Keep laughing all you tourist's" (April 6th, 2012 at 08:06)

    "Keep laughing all you tourist's"

    ” Keep laughing all you tourist’s, my dad clears way over 6 figures making and selling the things that you love while your in Amish country”. Richard

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    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 08:38)

    “Finding Raspberries”

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    Emma
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 08:47)

    LOL!!!! Thanks so much for using the picture, Erik! Let’s just say we were taken aback for a while! haha! Looks like Amish kids aren’t much different from our own…

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    Alice Mary
    Comment on Ha-ha! (April 6th, 2012 at 09:22)

    Ha-ha!

    “Nyah-nyah! Does your CAR produce natural fertilizer for your garden?”

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    Lin
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 09:25)

    “Don’t break the camera!”

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    Marilyn from NY
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 09:54)

    Back atcha

    They won’t find us here.

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    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 10:01)

    Not competing for the caption, but Finding Raspberries from Beth is cute. What I like is the girl reading a book. That was me on long car trips.

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    Diane Paulson
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 10:31)

    Kids Will Be Kids

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    Letty
    Comment on comment on back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 11:13)

    comment on back atcha

    If we know the Amish take offense to our taking picture, then why do we take them? I’m a little confused.

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      Tom
      Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 11:38)

      Letty,
      I agree. I have many pictures of Amish things, but not one picture of an Amish person.

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      Comment on Back atcha (April 7th, 2012 at 15:17)

      Hi Letty – When we’ve been in Amish country, an Amish woman said we could take as many pictures as we wanted, just not to ask them to pose for a picture. I asked what about taking a picture of someone plowing a field or working in the garden and she said that was fine. I asked if she had any pictures of her own children when they were small and she said, “Oh maybe a couple.” I wouldn’t get in someone’s face (Amish or not) but from afar, I don’t think they really mind.

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    Emma
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 11:38)

    Letty,

    I just want to say that we were very far away when my friend took this picture. In fact, the original picture wasn’t up close like this, she enhanced it on her computer. I don’t usually take pics of the Amish and I tell my friends all the time not to. However, I’m not so sure that taking pictures from far away is something that bothers the Amish, I think it’s when you get up in their faces and go about it rudely. This picture was not taken to offend the Amish, I can assure you that.

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      Tom
      Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 11:50)

      Emma,
      I would agree that few people would take a picture of an Amish to offend them, but just because you have a long lens or enhance it on a computer does not make it RIGHT. Many years ago I asked a friend if he would mind having his picture taken from the back. He said he didn’t think he would like that, end of conversation. Bill Coleman’s pictures are beautiful, but I don’t understand how he takes them. My Amish friends are very conservative.

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        Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 14:20)

        Good points Tom and food for thought. I wouldn’t be surprised if you got that answer. Some people do care, and don’t want any photos, some don’t care, some don’t care if it’s taken from far away, some don’t care if it’s the kids, some Amish give TV news interviews and appear in PBS films, and so on.

        I know that doesn’t mean everyone is okay with photos of children, and maybe it’s best never to take/post any photos of Amish people at all…I don’t get too hung up about it especially in cases like this as these kids are having fun with it…probably not for the first time in Lancaster Co.

        The best thing I’ve read about Amish and the thinking about photos was a piece in “The Amish and the Media” by Dirk Eitzen, referenced here: http://amishamerica.com/what-do-amish-think-about-photography/

        Bill Coleman’s story is interesting as it’s a very conservative group that he photographs, but he apparently developed a good relationship with the families over time. He talked about that here: http://amishamerica.com/bill-coleman-on-amish-photography/

        Also, we had a photo from Katie Troyer a couple of days ago…I think Katie is the reigning queen of taking photos of Amish people up-close and personal (you can see what I mean on her site). That Katie somehow gets away with it over and over again :)… but the folks she shoots are often on vacation so maybe that makes it more okay 😉

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          Marcus Yoder
          Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 16:24)

          My grandparents on both sides were Amish. There were some photos taken taken. Some looked as if they posed for them.I treasure the few that were taken.

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    Emma
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 11:54)

    I understand that, Tom and trust me I would never do it myself. My friend was basically hiding behind a group of us in order to take this picture. I’m not saying it was right, but she wasn’t doing it so that they could see the camera. I’ve told a lot of my friends that I think it’s wrong, but they do it anyway. I would never do anything to offend the Amish…that’s not what this picture is about for me. I just thought it was cute!

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    Alice Mary
    Comment on Not all Amish the same... (April 6th, 2012 at 12:03)

    Not all Amish the same...

    As I’ve read here, as well as other sources (books,especially those written by former Amish, Mennonites, friends of Amish) I know that picture taking restrictions vary from settlement to settlement, church district to church district. Some (like Schwartzentruber Amish) absolutely forbid it—they’re ultra conservative. Others (Beachy? other “New Order” Amish) allow it in a limited way. I’ve read that generally speaking, children can have photos taken of them—they’re not yet church members. Some allow “far-away” photos of adults (so their faces can’t be identified).

    I’ve learned that “one size” DOESN’T “fit all” for the Amish! (Or, most of the rest of the world, either!)

    Alice

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    Linda
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 13:29)

    Two possible captions:
    1. “You think I should eat spinach?”
    2. Behind Dad’s back.

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    Brenda Henry
    Comment on Photos (April 6th, 2012 at 15:24)

    Photos

    I did professional photography for 27 years. You name it,I photographed it … with the exception of any of my Amish neighbors. There have been so many times I have seen the children doing some of the cutest things, yet, out of due respect, I have never taken a picture of any of them, and never will.

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    Lattice
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 15:36)

    Any chance that young lady is giving those boys a good “preaching to” and that is their response to her?

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    Lattice
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 16:02)

    On that note, how about:
    “NOW HEAR THIS!”

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    Nancee
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 16:41)

    “It’s okay… Mamm and Dat can’t see we’re takin’ a break.”

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    Mary
    Comment on Back atcha (April 6th, 2012 at 20:46)

    Growing up Amish we were never offended by someone taking a picture of us. In fact, we hoped we could somehow get our hands on it! The only thing we didn’t like was if someone asked us permission before taking one. That made us responsible and we didn’t like that.(Our thought was: If you want a picture of me, go ahead. I’m not responsible for what you do.)

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      Tom
      Comment on Back atcha (April 7th, 2012 at 06:00)

      Mary,
      I found your comments interesting. Not all Amish are the same and that is the case with photos. Thank you have a wonderful Easter.
      Tom

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    Slightly-handled-Order-man
    Comment on Back atcha; Amish tech addiction (April 6th, 2012 at 21:19)

    Back atcha; Amish tech addiction

    I am on a self-imposed hiatus, but I had to come back for a caption contest. Can’t resist.
    S’up Erik, all I talked about since the end of March and beginning of April was cabbage rolls (rice v meat), kielbasa and perogies with the people I’ve met.

    “The Amish ‘crack-berry’, just as distracting and the odd paper cut”
    “WATCH OUT FOR THAT ~ BOOM!” [George of the Jungle theme song reference, gee, how old am I?]

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    Laura
    Comment on Back atcha (April 7th, 2012 at 00:05)

    Speaking of Amish and pictures, there was a four-episode little series about a veterinarian who’s been practicing in, I believe, Michigan for 50 years or so, and on at least two episodes he was shown visiting Amish farms, and in one case the farmer appeared on camera and in the other one of the farmer’s sons did, and in neither case was there any apparent objection. I found it quite interesting since like the rest of you, I’ve always understood that most Amish don’t want to be in photos, let alone on a TV show.

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    Comment on Back atcha (April 7th, 2012 at 12:49)

    “Don’t put that tongue on a frozen pipe!!”

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    Sara
    Comment on my neighbors (April 7th, 2012 at 16:03)

    my neighbors

    My Amish neighbors are a Swiss group. They are very strict in some ways, not so much in other ways. As someone above said, every group of Amish is different.
    My friends find it completely disrespectful for anyone to take their picture. If they are asked they say no, whether of adult or child, front or back, close or far. If they see with a camera they will move away from you,and/or ask you not to do it. Another friend of mine, an “English” fellow who runs an organic farm, took a picture of some carpentry folk working on his place. It was from in back and a distance. But the picture came out on his newsletter, which I had shared with my neighbors. They knew the folks in the picture and did not do any more work for this fellow. They found it disrespectful in the extreme that he would dishonor their beliefs and practices in this way. In his defense, he had known other Amish who wouldn’t have minded. I think, since things vary so much, it is better to know someone well before even considering such a thing. And to me, the concept of “don’t ask, just do it” feels absolutely awful. I can understand a child not wanting to be held responsible. But if in that family it was not an okay thing, then you are still disrespecting them, EVEN if someone has fun with it happening. It just doesn’t feel at all okay to me – except where you know the folks well enough to either ask or to be sure it is an okay practice as long as done discretely, or whatever is genuinely acceptable in that community. Sara

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      Brenda Henry
      Comment on My Neighbors~ (April 7th, 2012 at 16:46)

      My Neighbors~

      I totally agree with Sara, the same with my Amish friends and neighbors. A couple weeks ago,I was over watching the children play as their dad was plowing the garden with horses. His wife was standing next to me, and a car slowed down on the road, and she made a comment, “I know they were taking a picture, and it just makes me so angry, when they know better”.

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    Yoder
    Comment on Back atcha (April 7th, 2012 at 18:44)

    There seems to be quite a bit of variation in picture-taking beliefs in different communities and even in different families. My Amish grandmother in Indiana used to say, “You can take my picture; just don’t make me pose.” My Amish sister in another state says, “You can take pictures of the children, but not of me.” We have other Amish relatives we would not dare to take a picture of. Looking back at an elementary public school yearbook, some of the Amish children were pictured, and others had a blank space beside their name.

    This “fun stuff” photo became a rather serious topic!

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      Comment on Back atcha (April 9th, 2012 at 17:01)

      I thought it might have the potential for that Yoder :) Has been very interesting reading the varied responses.

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    Wendy
    Comment on Making a wish (April 7th, 2012 at 22:17)

    Making a wish

    The Amish are very good teachers. I wish I could help work for them.

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    Everett
    Comment on Help! (April 8th, 2012 at 19:14)

    Help!

    Fortunately none of his companions recognized the universal English signal for “Help, I’m being held hostage by the Amish!”

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    Eli S
    Comment on Back atcha (April 8th, 2012 at 19:42)

    The children in the picture are “hamming it up” much like anyone else’s children.

    When it comes to the Amish and pictures, there are many reactions. Being much like you and me, they enjoy looking at pictures of their peers. Visiting with my brother who is Amish, he pulled out one of those Amish picture calendars by Doyle Yoder and asked me if I could pick him out in a barn-raising photo. Which I then did.

    You may think they would all be offended by the photos, but they will buy the calendar for the photos, and then not hang it up. The same thing applies in magazine photos. Offended people would not cluster around to see themselves in photos. Clearly they enjoy those great pictures of themselves, but not on an official level. Those calendar pictures were taken without permission, but they enjoy them anyway. It may seem strange, but if the picture was unposed and taken without permission, then no one will face discipline. Ask permission and it will be denied, because in most cases answering “yes” would cause trouble. Know your way around the system and no one will be offended. If in doubt, refrain.

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    Letty
    Comment on Back atcha (April 10th, 2012 at 21:58)

    Back atcha

    Wow!!! All the responses. You all are great. I have an Amish friend in Kentucky that I so badly wanted to take a picture of , and her ten children, but when I asked — the answer was they would consider it rude because of their beliefs. THAT is why I was so confused. She is such a great friend I would never try to do anything that may offend her. She is so much fun to be around. Maybe she was just giving me the “expected” answer. I plan to ask her when we are alone–after explaining why I am asking to begin with. We are constantly writing letters back and forth, and I could ask her in writing. However, all of her family shares my letters, so I’ll wait till I can spend our alone time together. This is a time we set aside and let each other ask any questions we’d like without taking offense. I have such a great time with her and her family. If only I could get the courage to ask to stay with her for a month or two to learn some of their ways of living. I mean I’m such a city girl who now lives on a very small acreage (2 acres in Oklahoma) and have recently bought chickens because they were so cute in a local hardware store. Ha, I don’t even know the first thing about raising chickens. Plus they all now have names, so I can’t eat them. My Amish friend, Mary, would just laugh if she saw me with my chickens. Thanks to all for you for all your responses.

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