30 responses to What’s a good gift for an Amish person?

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    Fran Handrick
    Gifts for Amish People (August 9th, 2013 at 05:41)

    Gifts for Amish People

    I face this question each time I go to stay with an Amish family and since this is becoming 2 – 3 times a year, for research visits, it is quite a challenge. What I have found works, is to take to note of the kind of things they have in the house already or like and then add to it. For example, my friend, Anna, really loves to lay up a nice table with ‘pretty’ things. So I have begun to take her traditionally English things like dishes or lace or old linen napkins which she collects. I’ve noticed too that several of the ladies especially like it that the items come from England or, if I’ve been travelling there, then from Europe. On the last trip, I bought a boxed set of two sweet china coffee mugs and was asked by Miriam, to take some more next time I go so she and her sisters, (there are 8 of them) can all have the same! Another time, I noticed that there was shower gel in the bathroom, so I took some toiletries that Sara would be unlikely to buy for herself. Gardening gifts always seem to go down well.
    Amish men, like most men I know, are more challenging to buy gifts for, but for example, Elmer really likes to travel so ‘coffee table’ books of photographs of different places they are unlikely ever to see have been appreciated. Also, having been travelling with one family in the US and enjoyed a particular board game, we left a set for the children, and another one for Al, the father, as he wanted to introduce his brother’s family to it.
    I like these ideas though and will be equipping myself with a catalogue next time I’m there!

    Gifts for Amish People

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    Slightly-Handled-Order-Man
    For that someone whose ordnug advocates having very little (August 9th, 2013 at 05:55)

    For that someone whose ordnug advocates having very little

    I don’t personally know any Amish people, but here are some other things that I’d consider buying or giving

    Men/Multi
    Toolbox if deemed necessary
    Knife sharpening kit
    If inclined, State oriented fishing/hunting/birding guide book

    Women
    Gift certificate to favorite Amish specific dry goods / food store
    Cooking utensil she doesn’t have yet
    If so inclined, gift certificate to local fabric shop

    Children
    Homemade animal shaped pencil / pencil crayon holder
    Abacus for learning basic math (or if you’re inclined you can make one)
    Interesting, useful and plain gift for cherished pet
    (Family oriented) Pass to their favorite local family friendly attraction

    Rumspringa Teens
    Pass to local paint ball or other interested attraction
    Book of naughty or bad (awful) jokes
    “Loud” but appropriate Decals for buggy

    Other things
    Donation to whichever Amish/Mennonite charitable organization they volunteer with or support
    New but plain mailbox if needed
    Anything to replace something broken or not fixable that they hadn’t gotten around to replacing themselves.

    For that someone whose ordnug advocates having very little

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    New York State of Mind
    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 06:32)

    Either today or tomorrow, I am going to see a new Amish friend of mine and bringing her some goats milk as a gift. She runs a bake foods stand and several of her customers (myself included) want goats milk fudge. She and her husband do not own goats. The place she gets her goats milk is two towns away from her which means she would have to hire a driver to get there. When I go to her house, I drive right by it. So after I insisted I was going to give her a gift for something she did for me, she said she wanted a few quarts of goats milk from a certain store. So I will buy them and bring them to her.

    What’s a good gift for an Amish person?

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    Keeping gifts simple (August 9th, 2013 at 06:47)

    Keeping gifts simple

    Sometimes i take a book, which my Amish friends seem to appreciate. I also take candles … Like a Yankee candle thatnsmells like apple pie, etc. and lastly something from where you live is nice. I.m in Texas, so that can make for some fungifts … Salsa, bbq sEasonings, etc. Love this post. Thanks for sharing”

    • Thanks Vanetta. I usually either give food, or my car. Or rather use of it.

      Giving someone a ride is not really a “gift” that will generate sentimental value (besides any good memories created on a memorable journey), but there can be a huge difference in your cost vs. their value, considering Amish pay around a dollar a mile, or more, for taxi service.

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    Al in Ky
    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 06:59)

    Another good topic. My Amish friends to whom I occasionally
    give gifts are either Swartzentruber or very conservative Old
    Order Amish. At Christmastime, I give them large fruit baskets —
    and I always have to remember they have large families, so there
    needs to be enough fruit for the whole family to enjoy. They really seem to enjoy the fruit baskets. For the children, I usually give puzzles, which they appreciate. I buy simple ones for
    the small children, and ones with lots of pieces (500 or more) for
    the teens. I usually buy ones with nature or farm scenes. I show
    them to the parents before I give them to the children, to make sure the pictures don’t go against their church rules. I’d suggest this for any gifts you would give Amish children– show the
    gift to the parents first, and don’t be offended if the parents say
    they’d rather you not give that specific gift. I learned that once
    when I had a game to give a family’s children. The father thought it was too competetive; he said a more cooperative game would have
    been fine.

    What’s a good gift for an Amish person?

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    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 07:05)

    I’m going to bookmark this post because we visit friends up in Bowling Green (MO) and usually like to bring a little something. One of the families sent us a cute birth announcement because they just had their 8th baby, a girl, and invited us to come see her. Well, I had NO idea what to get an Amish baby. I couldn’t get it cute clothes or hair bows or things like that and I didn’t even know if they used cloth or disposable diapers (both, it turns out). We ended up going to the Wal-Mart up there and getting them a gift card and picking up some stuff for the other kids. They like to make home-made greeting cards, so I got them a new pack of colored pencils and paper, some bubbles (which they all wanted), and last but not least, snacks and cookies (when in doubt, food). Your lists and the ideas from the comments are great ~ so happy you posted this!

    What’s a good gift for an Amish person?

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    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 07:10)

    I forgot to add, each time one of Mary Ann Kinsinger/Suzanne Fisher’s “Life With Lily” books comes out, I get them a copy and they ALL love that – including the mom and the boys in the family. When the third book came out, I put that in the gift bag with the other stuff, and the 15 year old boy was the first one to get it and start reading. When the first one came out, I sent it to the mom in the mail and said she might want to read it first to make sure it’s fine (I knew it was but thought she might want to double-check). Then they were so excited each time they got a new one.

    What’s a good gift for an Amish person?

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    Terry Berger
    Gifts for friends (August 9th, 2013 at 07:26)

    Gifts for friends

    For weddings I used to give Aladdin kerosene lamps which have the light output of a 60 watt light bulb. They’re simple, beautiful and well within most district rules. I’ve also found that three or four yards of modest fabric have made nice gifts because it can be used in a quilt or to make clothing.

    Terry

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    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 07:53)

    We exchange a Christmas box every year with our Amish friends. Besides supplying each other with our specialty cookies, they will have in our box towels, scented candles, travel mugs, fancy dish, a thermometer, etc. We put in their box a new hammer for Ben, some of the headband LED lights, work gloves, for Susie a specialty egg whip, winter gloves plus a big can of popped corn and/or a fruit basket. One year I took a picture of their farm and had a calendar made; they really liked that. When their kids were small I’d buy bottles of strawberry quick for in their milk and some of the novelty kids snacks, some little farm animal toys and coloring books of farm animals and crayons. Once you stop and think what are useful items, it is fairly easy to come up with ideas. A good gift when just visiting is a box of greeting cards and nice letter writing paper. They do a lot of card sending. For a wedding gift I’ve gotten the girls a nice mixing bowl set or knife set, kitchen towels, cute cookie jar, anything useful for setting up a new kitchen. It’s actually easier and more fun to think up items for this Amish family than for my teenage grandchildren!

    What’s a good gift for an Amish person?

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    Denise
    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 07:55)

    Letter writing supplies might be nice. Stationery sets could be plain, floral or nature themed. And aren’t postage stamps always practical?

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    Osiah Horst
    Amish Gifts (August 9th, 2013 at 08:30)

    Amish Gifts

    Someone gave us a top quality bath towel – I have been using it for years so I always remember who gave it.
    A large box of chocolates, a flashlight (LED lights may not be appreciated by the most conservative Amish), a fruit basket, a jar of mixed nuts, a Vise Grip wrench.

    I would not recommend S-H-O-M’s choices for Rumspringa Teens unless you want to get in trouble with Mom and/or Dad!

    Denise, since many OOA are prolific letter writers, your gift ideas would certainly be appreciated.

    Amish Gifts

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    Debbie H
    More gifts (August 9th, 2013 at 08:43)

    More gifts

    As a quilter myself I think of not just fabric but other sewing notions. A quilt takes lots of thread, batting and of course needles, they dull with use. Different sized thimbles as well. The young girls learn sewing at a young age so maybe a personal sewing kit of their own with scissors, thimbles, seam ripper, etc. For children, simple toys like baseball, badmitton, etc. For men maybe some men’s hand cream, socks (or do the women knit them?). Since I live in Florida I would bring them fresh citrus in season as well.

    More gifts

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    Anne, the mom!
    Other ideas (August 9th, 2013 at 09:29)

    Other ideas

    We have this problem in spades as you can imagine. We continue our own practice of giving gifts for Christmas, birthdays, etc. We know our son, Ed, understands and appreciates it, but are not sure about Ruth. She’s always seems thankful though. As a wedding gift we mainly gave them money, as that seemed very appropriate since they were building a house and starting a business. I found a wonderful spice rack filled with great basic spices, as a special gift for her. My daughter gave her a basket of toiletries we thought she’d like.

    This past year we had lots of fun with surprise gifts. When Ruth’s birthday came round (March), we simply called the local grocer in Fertile, MN, and had a grocery delivery made. Grocer Al seemed tickled by the thought that he could cheer this young couple up this way, and wouldn’t even let us pay him to deliver it. Keep in mind that they are about 1300 miles from us, so we considered it a great gift to us, that he would do this. What we sent was important too. We remembered that they’d spent the winter surviving on root veggies from last years crops. But by March, we knew those were depleted. So we sent more! Potatoes, sweet potatoes, onions and garlic. Then we added in fresh fruit which is very popular with the Amish, they so rarely get it. Our little couple eats almost no meat, so we also sent a turkey for them to cook however they wanted. Since Ed loves Mexican food, we included avocados, tortillas, green chilies, and chips with salsa. Just as we thought, they were so excited to get this gift, they called the next day to say thanks! Sure enough, they were running out of food and the “basics” were as appreciated as anything.

    When Ed was first living with the Amish, he would come and go from the community in Va. When he’d go back, he would buy lots of bananas and oranges, as these things were considered huge treats. Sometimes, he’d stop and buy a gallon of ice cream at the last stop; then when he got there, everyone would stop their work and have a cold treat; they all loved this!

    Other ideas

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      Erin
      What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 12th, 2013 at 13:52)

      What kind and thoughtful gifts, Anne! I’m sure Ed and Ruth really enjoyed them!

      Thanks for sharing this gift list, Erik, and to the other readers that contributed. Our family is participating in our first ever CSA with a young Amish family and she just mentioned she had her 25th birthday and that her husband’s birthday was this coming week. They are having a Day at the Farm for their CSA members and I thought it would be fun to give them a little gift. Their children are very young (18 months and 3), so I’ll have to put a little thought it to it!

      What’s a good gift for an Amish person?

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    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 09:45)

    I have an Amish friend who likes red cardinals. While browsing through a thrift shop in Ohio, I found a bell and basket with a red cardinal on the front. My friend was thrilled and said she would display them in her curio cabinet. She loves thrift shops too so it added to the fun to know they came from a thrift store. :) Thanks for this great post.

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    Theresa H.
    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 09:52)

    We have numerous Amish friends, that we go and visit each year in Ohio. We always send thinking of you gifts throughout the year.:) Our friends enjoyed the Farmopoly game (which they told us they had a 10+ hour marathon), scenery puzzles are always a favorite, and books. The girls always like the Little House on the Prairie series, older boys like the Hardy Boys series, Wanda Brunstetter has a children series they like, and for the little ones, coloring books are enjoyed (animal or Bible story ones). I checked with each of the parents the first time, to make sure they were acceptable before sending them (each church district is different). For Christmas I always send a basket with a variety of Hot Chocolates & teas, chocolate candies, and kitchen towels, something everyone likes and can be used. Homemade gifts are always the best (crochet blankets, quilts, etc…) we all know, Amish/English how much love goes into making them. Just a few ideas I thought I would share. Hope everyone has a wonderful day!

    What’s a good gift for an Amish person?

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    Tim
    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 11:51)

    When I visit my Mississippi Amish friends, (Swartzentruber), I like to take the kids ice cream when the weather is warm. Their mother told me they liked it, and I know it is something they would not ordinarily buy often. It always gets lots of smiles and giggles! Anytime i visit, and they see that it is me, all the kids come running.

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    Carolyn B
    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 17:12)

    I want the wearable headlight. That would be the coolest thing to have on the nightstand for a middle of the night stroll to the bathroom, kitchen, or children’s room.

    I personally would attach it to my wheelchair so I could wear it and not have to backtrack to turn lights off/on when I needed to be up in the dark.

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    Matt from CT
    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 9th, 2013 at 22:36)

    Totally unrelated to the article…

    Post on an Antique Tractor board I read from a fella who runs an Amish Taxi about his busy and interesting Saturday he has planned shuffling Amish around:

    http://www.yesterdaystractors.com/cgi-bin/viewit.cgi?bd=ttales&th=6352

    Read it quick, because that forum “rolls off the manure spreader” after about three or four days usually.

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      Alice Mary
      What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 12th, 2013 at 11:48)

      Late to this post, again…

      Matt, I enjoyed the link—comments, especially!

      Erik, WOW! I had no idea how much the Amish pay for “taxi” service! I guess it varies from one settlement (or state) to another. Is there a “rule of thumb” one might use to determine the going rate? Is bartering ever involved (I would gladly exchange my own “taxi service” for home baked goods, most of the time!)

      Well, I’ve got lots of neat Amish gifting ideas from this post…now I just need some Amish friends! :)

      Alice Mary

      What’s a good gift for an Amish person?

      • Prices and value of Amish taxi rides

        Alice Mary I think it’s a safe bet some families trade or at least offer goods or services of some sorts for rides, say those given by neighbors or friends. But probably less common to see at least on a regular basis with the people who actually drive Amish for a living, for whom it is their main livelihood.

        I am not sure how much prices fluctuate in the short term depending on availability and demand, it is a good question. Some drivers are known to be cheaper and others more expensive. And some drivers are more reliable or more pleasant to ride with than others as well which may affect who an Amish person calls first and how much they pay.

        It doesn’t seem very cheap, but on the other hand you are paying for another human being’s time, use of the vehicle, and fuel. It may be cheaper than we think taking all that into account.

        Prices and value of Amish taxi rides

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    Dot Kapnic
    My Suggestions (August 10th, 2013 at 02:35)

    My Suggestions

    Postage stamps (preferably, “Forever”), since Amish still use “snail mail” for cards and letters. (Good for men, women, older teens)
    If for the entire family, something edible. (I give my Amish friends a ham each year for Christmas. They also like 3-pound bags of peanuts in the shell and pretzels.)
    For females, nice towels. (Not too heavy– too long to dry) (My friends only use bath towels and wash cloths, not fingertip or hand fingertip towels. Do not have to be solid color–that only applies to clothing. Also, dishtowels, since all dishwashing is by hand.)
    Black gloves or mittens

    My Suggestions

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    Bob Rosier (Bob the Quaker)
    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 11th, 2013 at 20:11)

    So many great ideas. I’m going to ask the parents about the Farm-opoly game and purchase if they agree it is OK. This particular Amish family has 6 young kids. Two are pre-school and the oldest I think is 10. I bought a canasta of helium from Wal-Mart ($22) and thought on our next visit I would blow up a bunch of helium balloons for all the kids.

    A little off the subject. Obviously the kids know my name from talking with the parents, and taking them shopping, etc. but I don’t think they know how to address me. Maybe it doesn’t matter to them. I’m thinking of telling them to call me Mister Bob. Anybody have a suggestion from knowing some Amish families? Erik, maybe in your visits? Thanking you in advance.

    What’s a good gift for an Amish person?

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    Bob Rosier (Bob the Quaker)
    What’s a good gift for an Amish person? (August 12th, 2013 at 16:05)

    Thanks Lattice. No, I would prefer Bob. Just wanted to see if anyone knew differently. It probably sounded like a strange question, but glad for the response. :-)

    I noticed the little ones didn’t respond to me until I used the little Pennsylvania Dutch I had learned. I should have remembered they generally learn English in school.

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    Wondercat
    LITTLE HOUSE books -- (December 26th, 2013 at 15:28)

    LITTLE HOUSE books --

    – have been well-received. As have, echoing others’ comments, FOREVER stamps.

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