23 responses to The Amish & Special Needs Children
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    Debbie
    Special indeed (April 9th, 2013 at 08:19)

    Special indeed

    I like the way the Amish think of special needs children as “special” blessings. We English seem to feel sorry for parents of special needs children and wonder why God would place this burden on good people. My sister has a special needs child. He is indeed “special” in many ways.

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    linda
    Special needs Children (April 9th, 2013 at 08:40)

    Special needs Children

    Debbie that is well said. For many years I worked with special needs children and they are a blessing. Unfortunately for some they require a lot of looking after and cannot communicate with their care givers, this, then is hard for both parties.

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    ADHD among the Amish (April 9th, 2013 at 10:12)

    ADHD among the Amish

    I work withing the ADHD community at the largest family-based support organization and see daily the struggles of coping with a hidden cognitive disability. De-stigmatizing and educating the non-ADHD community is a constant struggle (especially if you’ve seen some of the recent media coverage).

    My question is how is ADHD addressed in the Amish communities? Is it still seen a a “moral issue” or is it recognized as a medical disability that can also be treated (education on ADHD, behavioral management, medication when needed)? In the years that I have been working in the ADHD community, I know I’ve had one question come from an Amish family.

    When the disability is not easily recognized (ADHD, learning disabilities, mental health issues), do families and communities still see these challenges as a blessing? In our own community (the Englishers), there is a lot of rejection. Do our counterparts among the Amish have the same level or frustration and rejection?

    I know I’m asking more questions than commentary, but this is something I’ve wondered for a while, especially since I’ve done some outreach to under-served populations in the past.

    Thanks
    Karen

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      Amish and mental health (April 10th, 2013 at 10:55)

      Amish and mental health

      Karen, some good questions, which I’m not really qualified to address in much detail, though I appreciate Stephanie’s contribution below, if you haven’t seen it yet. I might say that lacking a firm diagnosis it may be hard to accept say lethargic behavior, moodiness or other symptoms that might be associated with some of these conditions. Especially so in a culture where a healthy person is one who is productive, and just getting to work and being productive along with, importantly, prayer and getting right with God may be seen as a cure for emotional and mental ills.

      I have an Amish friend that does a lot of mental health work and is conscious of the idea of the mind being another part of the body that needs to work well. You also see the mental health issue addressed in some Amish publications and being talked about in more clinical terms which may not have been the case in the past, when it was probably more often addressed as being primarily a spiritual issue (though that is still emphasized).

      There are a number of professionals that do work with Amish and other Plain patients. Some of the mental health treatment centers such as Rest Haven in Indiana and Green Pasture in PA cater to Plain patients and some even have largely Plain staff.

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    stephanie
    The Amish & Special Needs Children (April 9th, 2013 at 11:25)

    I helped a Amish friend with lunch at her chidren’s school recently. We ate there also and I spoke to some of the teachers. There was a special class just for students with learning disabilities. This teacher (Amish) actually has special training about dyslexia and ADD and she said she read every book she could get her hands on! I was shocked! My son has severe dyslexia. We home schooled him and had to bring in many tutors to help us. After help he was a straight A student. I was touched by the enthusiasm this teacher had for these students!

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    Alice Mary
    The Amish & Special Needs Children (April 9th, 2013 at 12:38)

    “Amish people are frank, often blunt, when they talk about disabilities…”

    I wish more English would do the same, rather than “tip-toe” around a child’s (or adult’s) obvious “challenges”. It would seem to be more inclusive of the “special needs” individual, and at the same time, helps the other person to understand that they may need to adjust their attitude or actions, as related to this special needs person in their midst.

    In our library, it’s definitely appreciated when parents who sign up their school-age children for programs let us know that “Connor has ADHD,” or “Melanie has a learning disability.” While we’re not trained experts, we do try to adapt programs for the children, or sometimes we suggest the parent stay to help their child.

    I learned a long time ago that special needs children usually have some pretty special parents & family supporting them; their special child was born into that family because (usually) s/he needed to be raised by them, because of their love and acceptance and adaptability.

    Alice Mary

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    Erin
    The Amish & Special Needs Children (April 9th, 2013 at 13:19)

    As others have commented, many times illnesses or disabilities can not be seen. I met an Amish gentlemen several years ago. When I made my purchases, he did not look at me or even thank me. I didn’t know if he didn’t acknowledge me because I was a woman or if it was something else. I met another Amish gentlemen a few years later and as we visited, I told him my experience. He knew whom I was talking about right away. He said he suffers from Bipolar Disease and had been in a state of depression at that time. He apologized for his behavior (it wasn’t necessary but he felt he needed to apologize for him). He said that an Herbalist had been trying to assist with his symptoms but they were not seeing much improvement. He said that his family has tried approaching him on many occasions and hasn’t been able to reach him. He also said that the “Big Guns” had been out to their place several times. I imagine he’s speaking of the police being called to help calm the situation. I haven’t been to that community for a few years now and I’ve wondered how that gentleman is doing (he’s actually their Bishop).

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      Amish & Bipolar disorder (April 10th, 2013 at 11:03)

      Amish & Bipolar disorder

      I have encountered something like this just once before. I have no idea what the case was, but the person seemed unable to communicate. The incidence of bipolar disorder is higher among some Amish particularly in Lancaster County. Amish are a very well-suited group for genetic studies. This is an article about one such study on bipolar going on now:

      http://www.ldnews.com/announcements/ci_22311901/abram-hostetter-studies-bipolar-disorder-amish

      “The Old Order Amish of Lancaster County have a lower incidence of mental illness than the general population, but a much higher incidence of bipolar disorder,” Hostetter said.

      Bipolar disorder, also called manic depression, often leads to suicide.

      “It’s in the blood,” said an Amish grandmother – or siss im blut, in Pennsylvania German – when Egeland began her research.

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        Erin
        The Amish & Special Needs Children (April 10th, 2013 at 12:00)

        Thanks for the link. I’ll have to read that. Very interesting that there’s a higher bipolar rate among the Amish. It is genetic so that explains some of it. The gentlemen really gave me a bad impression of his community and I’m glad I returned and was able to find out why he was unresponsive. The other gentleman I spoke with also said he’s hard of hearing so that probably contributed too. I really hope that he’s being treated and that he has minimal symptoms. I worry about his family and the entire church that he leads.

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    The Amish & Special Needs Children (April 9th, 2013 at 17:01)

    The Amish & Special Needs Children

    I am the father of a daughter with cerebral palsy who has her masters degree and now works with “Special Needs Children”. The rewards and struggles of parenthood has been a part of my life for over 40 years. An Amish friend of mine has 15 children, two of them have cystic fibrosis. While I feel that all children are gifts from God, I still question the necessary role that humans have in minimizing genetic conditions. God is in control, but he gave us brains and I think that he wants us to use them. Too many folks in insular societies marry too closely related relatives and the results can be painful. Both myy faith and be a student of science causes me to question life on a continual basis.

    Tom

    • Amish pre-screen for genetic conditions?

      Tom and others I appreciate you sharing. You raise an interesting point about minimizing genetic conditions. With Amish participating in genetic studies I wonder if there will ever be a point where potential Amish marriage partners pre-screen for possible genetic issues as is done in some societies.

      I doubt it for a number of reasons, but perhaps active participation in and support of the science and the work that geneticists and specialists are doing with the Plain communities may lead some to take the next step and consider it. Though that would seem to be taking things out of God’s hands in a major way.

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    Don Curtis
    Special Needs Children (April 10th, 2013 at 14:09)

    Special Needs Children

    I asked my son, Mark, who is Amish about this. He said that special needs children are dealt with in several ways. There are three Down’s Syndrome persons in the community and one very slow learner. Two of these are now of an age that they are out of school. The other is just starting school. He has his own Amish teacher who, for years, has worked with slow learner children. She, also, had experience working in Virginia in a residential facility for mentally retarded children.
    As far as hyper-activity and ADHD the Amish are not so apt just to jump on that and start the children on medications. They try changing the child’s diet. Restrict sugars and junk foods, etc. They do enforce discipline and hard work. Mark said that you would be amazed how much the effects of ADHD are diminished just by keeping the children busy at tasks that they can do to help out around the house. Also, the parents expect the children to mind. If all else fails, they may resort to medications but it is indeed a last resort. Mark doesn’t know of any children in his community that are on ADHD meds but he wouldn’t say it was impossible. He said that he can remember from when he was teaching that many parents out in the English world didn’t have the patience or didn’t want to take the time to teach their children discipline and hard work. It was so much easier just to pop a pill in their mouths. Any misbehavior in class wasn’t because the child needed discipline it was because they had this or that disorder and needed another pill. Mark isn’t saying that there aren’t cases where medications aren’t warranted but he feels that many modern day parents have replaced parenting time and skills with trying to medicate the problem.

    • Don I really appreciate Mark’s perspective on this sort of thing, which is probably close to if not unique among Amish, as someone who is Amish who also taught 30 years in public schools as an English person. I would think Mark’s voice has a particular weight on certain matters.

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    Linda
    The Amish & Special Needs Children (April 22nd, 2013 at 07:24)

    Prairie View Press, phone 800-477-7377, sells a book, GOD’S SPECIAL CHILDREN, compiled by Jacob R. and Anna Mast. The book has over 130 stories written by parents or siblings of children who are developmentally challenged, with 552 pages, printed by Schlabach Printing of Sugarcreek, Ohio. Here’s the link:
    www.prairieviewpress.com/products/God_s_Special_Children-571-62.html

    Dr. Morton heard an Amish boy’s grandfather say, “Special children teach a family to love. They teach a family how to help others and how to accept the help of others.” (dhm, From The Death and Life of Enos Fisher). From http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/mhhyoung/2008/08/22/the-clinic-for-special-children/

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    Sue
    The Amish & Special Needs Children (May 4th, 2013 at 13:43)

    The Amish & Special Needs Children

    Hi, I’m new to this, but I have been reading a lot about Amish people, their approach on SNC is fantastic as I have a daughter with Asperger’s Syndrome, but sometimes she doesn’t like to be ‘tagged’.We do tend to treat them differently. I’m learning quite a lot already from The Amish

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    Tina
    Special Needs (May 6th, 2013 at 10:11)

    Special Needs

    I have worked the past 14 years with special need children. I am taken very much by the way the Amish handle and feel about their children with special needs. Over the course of my work with many different kids and families the one thing that I have learned is that each child is a blessing and we should ask ourselves what we can learn from them and what we can always teach them.

    Blessings,

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    jan
    life's special sunbeams (May 6th, 2013 at 15:22)

    life's special sunbeams

    I was wondering how to subscribe to the publication, Life’s Special Sunbeams. My grandson has autism and we would like to hear other people’s ideas. Thanks in advance

    • Life's Special Sunbeams Amish special needs publication

      Hi Jan, I know a couple of readers here have already subscribed to Life’s Special Sunbeams. This is the subscription information you need, courtesy of a reader who checked directly with the publisher. Hope you find it helpful.

      To subscribe:

      Life’s Special Sunbeams
      212 Hershey Church Road
      Kinzers, PA 17535

      UPDATE May 2014: New Address
      66 Cherry Hill Rd.
      Ronks, PA 17572

      $20 US per year (Canadian price is $25 per year U.S. funds)

      Allow approximately 6 weeks for new subscriptions.

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        jan
        The Amish & Special Needs Children (May 6th, 2013 at 16:46)

        thanks so much. Our family appreciates your help.

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        Sue
        Amish Special needs Children (August 5th, 2013 at 11:27)

        Amish Special needs Children

        Hi, I have a 15 year old daughter who has been diagnosed with traits of Aspergers Syndrome. I love the way the Amish are towards disabled children. I am English, and in this country they are either do not acknowedge a problem or it can be the complete opposite and our children become wrapped up in cotton wool! My daughter is out of school because her school plus education welfare won`t acknowledge her problems, it`s been an absolute nightmare. I love this site, it`s so informative. Thank you

      • Update: Life's Special Sunbeams address change

        If you’re interested in subscribing to Life’s Special Sunbeams, I’ve just been informed there is a new address: 66 Cherry Hill Rd., Ronks, PA 17572

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    Carolyn B
    The Amish & Special Needs Children (August 5th, 2013 at 02:22)

    Thanks for the article, Erik. I am finally going through my newsletter emails to catch up on what I have been missing. Very good stuff here.

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    Linda
    God's Special Children book (October 25th, 2013 at 07:59)

    God's Special Children book

    A paperback book, “God’s Special Children” was written by Amish Benuel M. Fisher of Lancaster County, PA, in 2012. Most of the 186-page book details the story of an Amish boy, Marlin Riehl, with Glutaric Aciduria type 1 (GA-1), a genetic disorder. The remaining chapters portray the Millers, Allgyers, Glicks, and Hoovers. Throughout the well-written book, Dr. Holmes Morton is mentioned. “What a grand doctor!” His Clinic for Special Children is pictured inside the covers. My copy was purchased through a display of Lantern Books of Lebanon, PA.

    These sentences stood out to me:
    -“The looks of his old auto told Susie that this was not one of those doctors chiefly out for money.”
    -“How can it be that someone has finally found an answer to our heartaches?”
    -“What a wonderful servant God has sent for future babies.”
    -“Holmes Morton, like his fictional namesake Sherlock Holmes, had cracked the case.”
    -“God heard my prayers. I’ll try my best to be his servant.” “Without God, I would not have succeeded.”
    -“Well, if I never had a special child, I would not know what to say to someone who does have one. She realized that not all have the same talents for expressing feelings and care for others.”
    -“Let everyone rejoice for those who spend their time in working with God’s special children. Their rewards are far more than huge paychecks. The interaction touches a spot in their hearts.”

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