13 responses to What Happens At An Amish Wedding
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    Al in Ky
    Comment on What Happens At An Amish Wedding (April 22nd, 2016 at 13:38)

    A few years ago, the Adult Sunday School class of my church invited a Beachy Amish couple, who had been raised and married as Old Order Amish, to speak to our class about Old Order Amish faith and life. One thing I remember is that the husband said that their wedding cost $3,000. When asked for details about expenses, his reply went something like this, “We had no expensive clothes, decorations or flowers. The majority of that money was for the food that was served for dinner after the ceremony and for supper to the guests who stayed for the evening/singing. We had several hundred people at our wedding.”

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      Comment on What Happens At An Amish Wedding (April 25th, 2016 at 08:12)

      I wonder how a $3K price tag would compare to the average American English wedding? Just a guess, would it be 10-20%?

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        Comment on English wedding cost (April 25th, 2016 at 08:14)

        English wedding cost

        Well, a quick Google search later, if this site is to be believed, the average cost is around $26K. So, I was in the ball park 🙂 About the cost of a decent sedan.

        http://www.costofwedding.com/

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          Al in Ky.
          Comment on What Happens At An Amish Wedding (April 25th, 2016 at 16:06)

          That’s interesting information, Erik, especially in light of the Beachy Amish (formerly OOA) man thinking their wedding was expensive. By the way, this couple is from Daviess County, Indiana, a settlement which I know you are familiar with.

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    Comment on Over the Fence (April 22nd, 2016 at 17:48)

    Over the Fence

    Great post Erik….thanks for sharing. I didn’t know about the celery tradition. One of our Amish friends were married last October. Several of the boys threw the groom over a fence, then threw the bride over the same fence with the groom catching her. Lot of people laughing. Apparently a tradition in Lancastwr county. I wonder about other areas.
    I was just told that this bride & groom are soon taking a belated wedding trip to Alaska. I will see them next week & I plan to ask them how they plan to travel. Train, bus, or what. Going to be a long trip.

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      Comment on What Happens At An Amish Wedding (April 25th, 2016 at 08:17)

      Sounds fun Bob, glad you liked the post. I enjoyed the article. In addition to Karen’s research, Rich Stevick’s book Growing Up Amish: The Rumspringa Years has some nice info on weddings, including the pranks, this one rings a bell.

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    Alice Mary
    Comment on What Happens At An Amish Wedding (April 23rd, 2016 at 14:00)

    I’ve seen a similar photo of an Eck in The Connection (Amish) magazine. The simplicity, cleanliness & beauty make me wish more “English” brides would consider a simpler wedding…with more emphasis on the people involved (families, relatives, friends) and less on “excess and boastfulness”.

    The wedding trailer is something I think the English could take to heart—keep the cooking/cleaning up confined to the trailer—this would free up more people to have weddings in their homes or less expensive venues (local VFW hall, or church basement, etc.), if they didn’t have to stress so much over the meal & serving.

    Interesting post & lots to ruminate over.

    Alice Mary

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      Comment on Simple wedding (April 25th, 2016 at 08:18)

      Simple wedding

      I like this idea but I don’t know if the wedding industry would agree Alice Mary 🙂

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    Bob the Quaker
    Comment on Marriage Vows (April 23rd, 2016 at 18:35)

    Marriage Vows

    I agree Alice Mary. We were married in our Quaker Meeting, and as custom we said our own vows. “In the presence of God & these our friends, I take thee Xxxxx to be my wife, promising with Devine assistance to be a loving & faithful husband so long as we both shall live”. My wife then repeated the vow, and that was it.
    That was 1960, so guess it worked….

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      Comment on weddings (April 24th, 2016 at 14:05)

      weddings

      I am not Amish but when we got married 25 years ago, I didn’t have a big fancy wedding. My Grandpa bought me a dress that cost $25.00, a pair of shoes that cost $15.00. We didn’t have flowers, or music, no bridesmaids, no bestmen, no flower girls. My Uncle surprised us with a wedding cake. My Dad stood by me at the Alter and my husbands brother stood by him and we had maybe 25 Church member’s at the wedding. We never went on a Honeymoon and we still haven’t had a honeymoon(I think I deserve one soon) lol. My point here is you don’t have to have a huge expensive wedding, or honeymoon. Love is what you need to have a beautiful marriage, and yes, you have to work on it all the time.

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    GLEN K
    Comment on amish -wedding (April 2nd, 2017 at 01:06)

    amish -wedding

    are English folks ever involved in the actual wedding, best man,maid of honor, or witness?

    thank you

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      Mark — Holmes Co.
      Comment on What Happens At An Amish Wedding (April 3rd, 2017 at 06:17)

      Glen, not that I have ever heard of. There isn’t a “best man” or “Maid of honor.” There are two male witnesses and two female. Around here we call them “navahockers” or side-sitters.

      In our group, non-Amish people (usually relatives or co-workers) might be invited as “help,” like servers or cooks, but not as part of the wedding ceremony.

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