Joining the Amish

When a son joins the Amish: The only treasure you can take to Heaven

When a son joins the Amish: The only treasure you can take to Heaven

Anne is back with a new piece on her recent visit to her Amish convert son Ed‘s community in Minnesota. When last we heard from Anne, she was describing why she felt like a wimp living Amish for a few days. One thing the Amish have in abundance is children. It’s no surprise when they say their children are the only treasure they can take along to…

When a son joins the Amish: Dollars, Degrees, Dentists

After sharing some of the hard times in her son’s Minnesota Amish community, including health and financial concerns, Anne writes that she has received another letter from Ed and Ruth. When I read the account below I thought about how different this picture is compared to what 90% of America imagines Amish life to be.  It’s not about idyllic farm life or Amish mafias or…

When a son joins the Amish: Hard times

Last summer we first heard from Anne, whose son Ed a few years ago joined an Amish community in Minnesota.  Anne shared her experience as an English mother to an Amish son in posts on language challenges at Ed’s wedding, friends’ reactions, and expectations regarding photos. Becoming Amish is not easy to do, which is probably as it’s meant to be.  One reason is the change in…

When a son joins the Amish: How do others react?

You may remember hearing a while back from Anne, whose son Ed joined the Amish.  Anne has just returned from a visit to see Ed and her new grandson in Minnesota.  She also spent some time recently in Pennsylvania.  I think you’ll enjoy this update in which she sheds light on how others, both Amish and non-Amish, have responded to her son’s decision. Two recent…

Marlene Miller on Grace Leads Me Home: Giveaway & Interview

Marlene Miller is a convert to the Amish and author of Grace Leads Me Home, a memoir of becoming Amish and her life in the 45 years since.  I read Marlene’s book a couple of months ago and quite enjoyed it.  Here is how I described my overall impression: I liked the book.  We’ve seen a few accounts of individuals leaving the Amish lately (see Ira…

When a son joins the Amish: What about photos?

When a son joins the Amish: What about photos?

Last week Anne shared her experience as a parent of a son who joined the Amish. Anne shared some of the wonderful things, as well as the difficulties of her son Ed becoming a member and marrying in an Amish church. Today we hear about another challenge her family has faced. This is an issue any family of an Amish convert would encounter…but as you’ll…

When a son joins the Amish

When a son joins the Amish

One of our readers, Anne, has a son, Ed*, who was fairly recently baptized in the Amish church. I’ve been corresponding with Anne for some time on the subject, and hope to share more with you in future.  Anne and her husband have had an experience unlike most, in watching a college-educated son with a modern upbringing join one of the more closed religious societies…

Joining the Amish: 45 Years Later

Grace Leads Me Home by Marlene Miller Marlene C. Miller grew up Marlene Bailey in a little town on the edge of the Holmes County, Ohio Amish settlement.  One day while ice-skating, Marlene meets Johnny Miller, an Amish boy five years her senior.  She would later marry Johnny, join the Amish church at age 23, and have ten children.  She remains Amish to this day….

Do Amish evangelize?

Alice Mary writes: About 6 years ago, my husband & “kids” (then ages 23 & 29 at the time, daughter & son, respectively) were coming back from some concert in Millennium Park (or Grant Park?) and a young Mennonite woman (late teens, I’d guess) greeted me (I guess it was obvious I was the “Mom”) and handed me a brochure about Menonnite beliefs & Christianity…

Joining the Amish after 50?

Joining the Amish after 50?

If you’re thinking you’d like to join the Amish, odds are it’s the wrong decision. As we’ve discussed many times (see “If you left the English, what would you gain?“), there are too many challenges for most people to adopt an Amish life. Still, some kindle a desire to become Plain.  Many are younger individuals.  But sometimes it’s older adults.  A few days ago Don…