25 responses to Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls
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    Comment on Thank you... (January 15th, 2015 at 08:39)

    Thank you...

    For this story. My feelings have been so similar about visiting the area, although we happened to drive through during our last visit to the Lancaster area. Even when not in the area, the fences and bars on windows serve as reminders of both the tragedy and some of the resulting changes.

    While I can’t say I’m ready to “go looking” for these pear trees, I can say that it there is some comfort in knowing they exist and bloom each year.

    Thanks to the Amishman for them and to you for the story.

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      Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 15th, 2015 at 12:14)

      Walter sounds like we feel similarly, it’d be different if I knew people in that area but I expect I’ll only see this place in situations like I describe, passing through on the way to somewhere else.

      One thing you wrote caught my eye — do you mean that local homes have bars on windows as a result of these shootings? By the wording of your comment I wasn’t quite sure which area you were referring to. Thanks.

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        Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 15th, 2015 at 16:46)

        Erik asked: Walter…One thing you wrote caught my eye — do you mean that local homes have bars on windows as a result of these shootings? By the wording of your comment I wasn’t quite sure which area you were referring to. Thanks.

        Erik, oops, no… I was actually referring to most of the Amish Schools in the Lancaster area. Actually, “bars” may be too strong, but it seems to me many have put grills over the windows. Of course public schools have security almost equal to prisons, but for some reason seeing these simple schools with windows covered, etc. is a stark reminder of how cruel the world can be… so welcome the pear trees!

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          Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 16th, 2015 at 18:05)

          Thanks Walter for the elaboration. If you see her comment below, Mary Yoder described these as being window protection from flying softballs. This jogged my memory of a photo I took a few years ago in Lancaster, it’s the third one down on this page:

          http://amishamerica.com/photos-lancaster-county/

          That might resemble what you’re referring to. You can see the basketball hoop attached to the school wall right between windows, which I think explains those grates. Not very cheery especially if you’re on the inside looking out, but I guess it keeps window replacement costs down.

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            Comment on Maybe... (January 17th, 2015 at 06:23)

            Maybe...

            I suspect in some (many?) cases that the softball explanation is correct… but for two things. One, I don’t recall noticing many prior to the incident… and two, some of the schools have them on ALL windows. I do know there were other changes as a result, such as all schools being required to have a 911 street address. These are certainly not all “bad” things, but perhaps “sad” things… especially for a group that works hard (and seems to succeed in many ways) to eliminate social ills.

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              Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 19th, 2015 at 13:31)

              Interesting, Walter. I know there were possible changes discussed in terms of improving safety following the shootings. I didn’t pay attention to whether these grates were on all windows at the time, now I suspect I will notice that. Maybe these ugly things also discourage too much staring out the window and daydreaming when they should be hard at work 🙂

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                Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 19th, 2015 at 14:57)

                There is something to be said for coming up with so many more positive explanations for the window grills. I wonder if keeping the tourists from staring in would work? Not sure that’s a positive, though… but I can tell you that in the public school where I occasionally work, a stranger staring in the window would likely result in a lock down!

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    lincolnlady1121
    Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 15th, 2015 at 09:31)

    I think that was a beautiful thing to do. It is for the memory of the girls and it is not commercial.

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    Comment on How Appropriate (January 15th, 2015 at 10:04)

    How Appropriate

    …that they will not only blossom, but will continue to bear fruit. What a beautiful memorial.

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      Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 15th, 2015 at 12:32)

      Well put. The story makes reference to this, but the one of the last times I passed by was shortly after some sort of gusty wind storm in Lancaster County, and we could see one of the trees had snapped.

      By the looks of the photos they were able to replace it with one of the same size/age. It would be a shame if they had gotten so large that they weren’t able to do that.

      By the way you can see a photo of the trees in bloom in the slideshow on the Reading Eagle article.

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    Juanita Cook
    Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 15th, 2015 at 11:02)

    What a wonderful memorial to those five girls. Thank you for sharing this story with us…

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    Kevin L.
    Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 15th, 2015 at 11:08)

    I agree. What a nice memorial to those girls!

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    Carol
    Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 15th, 2015 at 16:09)

    Disagree here. Whenever a “living” memorial is planted and subsequently dies, falls in a windstorm, is knocked over by a drunk driver, it’s even more painful to the folks whose relative had died. I speak from personal experience on this. (And , honestly, if those are Bradford pear trees, they are notorious for getting broken over by wind. Yes, the blooms are pretty, no doubt about that).

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      Marcus Yoder
      Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 15th, 2015 at 22:17)

      These trees are not Bradford pears. They are probably either Aristocrat or Cleveland Select Pears.
      Marcus Yoder

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    Alice Mary
    Comment on Fallen or not... (January 15th, 2015 at 17:49)

    Fallen or not...

    To me, it’s still a moving tribute, and it seems (by what Erik related) that the community cares enough to replace them as needed. I’m sure the people there are familiar with the type of trees they are, and the damage they’re prone to. Still, it was a kind thing to do by the Amishman in the first place. Too bad they weren’t oaks, but the thought is what counts. They may all eventually fall, but then, so did the girls. Speaking for myself, it’s a fitting reminder of how fleeting and precious life is.

    I think of the day of the shooting often, as it happened during my daughter’s first months as a teacher in an elementary school in a nearby town here. When I first heard the news, I thought of her and her students, and said a prayer that nothing similar would ever happen to them…or anyone else. Of course, it DID happen a number of times since then.

    Alice Mary

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    Comment on It may be about process... (January 15th, 2015 at 18:10)

    It may be about process...

    Alice Mary, I couldn’t agree more. We do need that reminder… and in this case, I think the story of these trees is a greater tribute than the trees themselves. I’ve never seen the trees; perhaps never will… but the remembrance of these trees, these girls, this Amishman, and this story will persist.

    One of the more comforting truths I accept is “Nothing is ever lost to us as long as we remember it.” Tributes and monuments are but aides to the memory.

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      Sandra K
      Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 24th, 2015 at 16:28)

      Could not agree more. Just as the joy of the empty cross was the result of violence and much sadness, so we must always strive to create faith connection and meaning — to find joy in all things.(1Thessalonians 5:15-18– See that none render evil for evil unto any man; but ever follow that which is good, both among yourselves, and to all men.Rejoice evermore.Pray without ceasing.
      In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.)

      And…a bit of an aside: we were all (Amish and non-Amish) hurt: the senseless violence among the most innocent and vulnerable among us rips through all our hearts and wounds us to our core.

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    Cindy Batdorf
    Comment on Five Trees Memorial (January 15th, 2015 at 18:32)

    Five Trees Memorial

    When this tragedy occurred, I was heartbroken for them. We visit Lancaster as often as possible, once a year or so. While on a two day stay it was so on my heart to find the area and just sit in thought. My husband said I would never find it. Well we did and I was so moved, I asked my husband to pull off the road while I just sat there and soaked in the pain and then the forgiveness and finally the renewed spirit. It helped me heal my aching heart just to spend some time there. Are the 3 oak trees still standing?

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    Mary Yoder
    Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 16th, 2015 at 04:10)

    Walter,
    The bars/grills on the windows are to guard them from flying soft balls when they play at recess. They are not for security from the world as far as I know. Softball is a very important game for Amish schools.

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    Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (January 16th, 2015 at 08:28)

    A moving gesture — and a beautiful story.

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    Bob the Quaker
    Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (May 4th, 2015 at 16:54)

    I just drove down the main road (Mine Road) & the only place that looked like it had 4 tall trees and 2 smaller trees. Are the trees on that main road? I just can’t get over what happened…but perhaps it is good to never forget.

    • I’m not sure how to best describe where they are in Nickel Mines, but when you see them, you’ll know it–there are 5 trees planted in a distinct row along a fence line. Not too far off the road at all. It stands out because they’re all the same size and look like they’ve been intentionally planted.

      There was another recent article at Lancaster Online you might have seen which I shared on our Facebook page, about how the trees were now (or last week, at least) in bloom. There’s a more current photo there as well:

      http://lancasteronline.com/opinion/the-scribbler-subtle-memorial-to-five-young-girls-at-nickel/article_13729ef0-ece5-11e4-8d94-d39e5a89f265.html

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    Bob the Quaker
    Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (May 5th, 2015 at 17:45)

    Thanks Erik…I’m heading back over in the morning & hope trees are still in bloom. I’ll pass along a picture. and, thanks for your post Cindy. Very touching

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    Cindy Batdorf
    Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (May 5th, 2015 at 18:15)

    Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls

    Bob the Quaker, I hope you find what you are looking for and that it gives you the peace that it has for me.

    I worked in a rural library for 27 years and I became friends with many Amish families, watched their children grow up and some became teachers. This horrible incident became very personal for me and I felt their pain as if it were my own. Spending some time in that place of love and laughter and learning and then all the tragedy helped me heal. Sometimes you have to go to the place whether it be some trees or a tree made into a cross.

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    Bob the Quaker
    Comment on Five Trees Memorialize Nickel Mines Girls (May 7th, 2015 at 08:37)

    Cindy, Erik, all. Yes, I did find the trees. My plan was to take a picture with trees in full bloom, then the same shot when they had turned green. Didn’t find them in time, but I’ll be ready for next spring. They were further off the road than I had thought.
    I had the same feeling Cindy becoming personal for me and feeling their pain. What could be worst than loosing a child, especially a young one that had their life ahead of them. My feelings probably due to living so close to where it happened, and to my not liking guns. It shows that the increased violence in our country affects everyone..even if you are peaceful, innocent, and loving people

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