28 responses to Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident
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    Kevin L.
    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 15th, 2015 at 06:10)

    What a tragedy and so very sad. A reminder to us all to practice extra caution and defensive driving whenever we are in Amish areas, or any area that children are. My prayers and condolences to the family of this horrible accident.
    Kevin L.
    Michigan

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    Peggy M
    Comment on ((Prayers)) (May 15th, 2015 at 06:44)

    ((Prayers))

    My heart to all involved .
    (((Prayers)) to all who loved and cared for this child.

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    Slightly-handled-Order-man
    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 15th, 2015 at 07:17)

    I remember seeing a family of (probably) Mennonites walking in a long line of people from point A to point B, on a country road, they where more than likely safe there, but it was interesting to see such a big family, at that moment they where all ‘under control’.

    I also can’t help but wonder how many times Amish people in buggies have hit and injured children… that sounds cruel in the topic of this post, which is very sad (the topic), but it could warrant investigating.

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      Verity Pink
      Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 15th, 2015 at 09:53)

      My instinctive reaction to the issue of buggy fatalities would be that speed plays such a big part in the ability of a driver to execute a sudden stop, that I would have thought buggies would be safer than cars as regards their likelihood to run people over (and as to the seriousness of injury in the event of an accident). Having said this, they are arguably less safe for the occupants in the event of a car/buggy collision.

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    Forest Hazel
    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 15th, 2015 at 07:32)

    My question is the same as it would be in the case of an accident like this happening in a non-Amish family; where were the parents and why was this child not being properly supervised?

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      Karen Pollard
      Comment on Reply to Forest Hazel's comment (May 15th, 2015 at 21:54)

      Reply to Forest Hazel's comment

      Forest,
      Those were my thoughts also. Although my heart aches for this family’s loss, I cannot imagine a one year old child being in the road anywhere. This child should have been indoors with its mother.

      I too lost a child, a 21 year old daughter, to a car crash. It’s the worst nightmare for any mother or father. Even though I know she’s in a better place and we will be together again one day, I still grieve and mourn the loss of her companionship and sharing of her life.

      From the description of the location of where this happened, it sounds as though the driver of the vehicle simply could not see the baby until he crested the hill, at which point, it was just too late.

      Not only will the parents feel the loss of this child, that gentleman driver will never get over this either. Can you imagine the horror of finding you have killed a baby????

      I can think of nothing worse than losing your child. Prayers for these poor people who are all involved.

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    Juanita Cook
    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 15th, 2015 at 07:42)

    My thoughts and prayers are with this family as they go through this very tragic time in their lives.

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    leilah
    Comment on bike lane? (May 15th, 2015 at 08:59)

    bike lane?

    Why can’t the government build a separate bike lane? I have visited other countries where there are highly used bike lanes and no one gets into accidents because drivers are aware of pedestrians and cyclists at all times. We just need a change in the way we approach the road. Maybe we can start by having lanes in major roads in Lancaster, for example and get the English more educated on the manner. Of course, it wouldn’t change accidents for everyone but I would imagine it can help. I wish more English would use bicycles so that more people bike and less people drive. It’s just good for everyone for so many reasons. So sad about this little baby.

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    Lance
    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 15th, 2015 at 10:11)

    To the Amish, that child is in a better place. And that child does not have the worries and troubles in this life that we have. It is sad and terrible and makes one heart sick, and the Amish do feel that way too. But, as Erik pointed out, it is seen as God’s will. He is not to be questioned as to how or why. That vehicle driver is probably in a worse situation than the Amish as that man does not have the support community that the Amish have. Our culture is just not like that.

    Now, as the family and friends gather for this child’s funeral, two things that will be said many, many times are “We never know when it is our time to go” and “Are you ready today?”. Think about those two concepts. You DO NOT know that you will live through today or tomorrow, so ARE YOU ready to meet God today?

    • This is the big paradox. We love them and want them with us and so deeply feel the pain of loss, but believe/hope that when they die the place they end up is better than we can even conceive–it’s where we ultimately want them to be. It’s hard not to struggle with that on some level.

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      Naomi Wilson
      Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 15th, 2015 at 17:39)

      Lance, I appreciate your words here. While I don’t want to think about the pain of losing a child, one thing I know for sure is that I would a thousand times rather walk through that loss among fellow believers in our Mennonite church family, than among the chorus of unbelieving family and friends who would be asking “how many ways could this tragedy have been prevented?”

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    Amish Girl-Rebecca
    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 15th, 2015 at 10:16)

    Thoughts & prayers are with the family.
    Leila , here in Holmes many of our major roads have buggy lanes. I wish more did.

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    Donna J
    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 15th, 2015 at 12:43)

    I am so sorry for the loss to the family and the community. It is not for us to judge why this happened. Only God knows and rest assured that precious Amish child is with God as we speak. Accidents happen and are not always someone’s “fault”. The most we can do is pray for the family and the child.

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    Sarah, Indiana
    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 15th, 2015 at 13:52)

    Oh no! When people are driving, they need to be more careful. Especially in an Amish community. At least the man had the decency to help the injured toddler. That is just awful that the child died. The family will be in my prayers. I can’t even imagine how they are feeling right now. That is just awful.

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    Liz Detrich
    Comment on Prayers to the family (May 15th, 2015 at 14:25)

    Prayers to the family

    No one knows when he will meet the lord, but the loss of a child is especially tragic. My thoughts and prayers are with the community for their comfort and peace.

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    Alice Mary
    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 17th, 2015 at 16:53)

    A tragedy. I can’t imagine how I’d feel, though the Amish have grief counselors all around them–their extended families & friends. Their belief of the child being in a better place is much more deeply held, it seems, than us English. Still, they will need the blessing of time to get through the sorrow.

    How common (statistically speaking) is such a tragedy in Amish communities?

    Alice Mary

    • A good question Alice Mary, and I don’t know the answer. There have been buggy accident studies, but I’m not sure if there has been anything strictly concerning Amish pedestrians. If I find something I’ll circle back here and let you know.

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    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 17th, 2015 at 21:15)

    After a grocery-list of things that have for weeks kept me busy and limited on my ability to interact with AA here, it’s sad that my first article as I play catch-up has to be about such a tragedy. So very, very sad.

    I think, Erik, your points on why there appears to be more of such accidents among the Amish (vs. the English) is insightful. I would wonder if media ‘hype’ and the felt novelty of the Amish would steer the media towards an Amish story over a similar English story in their routine news-selection process. Any child hurt in a accident has the media-coveted emotional-knee-jerk reaction by the readers/watchers, but adding the “Amish” element to it just arguably makes for an even greater response and thus a greater tendency to be reported. I would never assume that cases reported (Amish vs. English) by media were necessarily reflective of real per-capita data.

    I find the consideration of handling of loss by the Amish vs. by the English an interesting thought to ponder. I have no doubt that some level of an unquestioning “all things are from the hand of God” mentality among the Amish is a part of the explanation. However, I have to wonder if the English “helicopter parenting” mentality (coined/popularized after the World Trade Center disaster of 9-11, referring to the increased tendency for parents to “hover” over their kids in an overly-protective manner) may also have an impact on the “norm” or “standard” by which we evaluate the Amish response. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for being protective against all *reasonable* dangers that our kids might get into. But the near-paranoia that many parents nowadays have – plus the fact that many parents do not share the Amish’s assurance of being with the child in the hereafter – would seem to be a huge part of the explanation of the difference. In short, the calmness and acceptance by the Amish as they are compared to today’s “norm” may speak more about the erosion of the norm than it does the stance of the Amish.

    • Great comment Don. A number of good points. Hard data on Amish child pedestrian accidents would be handy to have, because as we’ve seen the Amish element in a story is motive in and of itself to report it and for other outlets to pick it up and spread it.

      I do think the features of Amish culture listed above make their situation different from the majority of North American children with its own specific risk factors, and I think it’s safe to say their risk is elevated just because non-Amish are infrequently if ever in the same situations (walking on busy roads to school, riding pony carts, being watched by siblings only a few years older). Non-Amish may have greater risk levels in other areas (as passengers in cars, ATV accidents, etc).

      Also I thought this was really well put:

      “But the near-paranoia that many parents nowadays have – plus the fact that many parents do not share the Amish’s assurance of being with the child in the hereafter – would seem to be a huge part of the explanation of the difference.”

      I don’t think I’d be comfortable letting my theoretical children have as much range as it seems some Amish kids have, but I also wouldn’t want them wearing helmets and kneepads on the playground.

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    Comment on Farm accident death in NY (May 21st, 2015 at 10:40)

    Farm accident death in NY

    A 9-year-old Amish boy in New York was killed Tuesday while playing in a metal dump cart. He rolled down a hill and was ejected:

    http://wibx950.com/childrens-game-turns-into-fatal-accident-on-amish-farm-in-orleans-new-york/

    Sadly, not the first child this family has lost in an accident. A 3-year-old was killed 2 years ago when he climbed onto metal gates which fell and crushed him: http://www.wwnytv.com/news/local/Amish-Boys-Death-Was-Not-First-Tragedy-For-Family-304460381.html

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    Lance
    Comment on Amish 1-Year-Old Killed In Michigan Road Accident (May 21st, 2015 at 11:10)

    A week before the child was killed in Hillsdale, a boy was killed in the nearby Amish community of Homer, MI. He was riding in a cart being pulled by his father’s buggy. They were returning from a trip to the feed mill when the cart disconnected from the buggy. The tongue of the cart dropped to the road, stopping the cart instantly. The ton of feed sacks toppled onto the boy killing him immediately.

    The child from the above story in Hillsdale was a girl, almost 2 years old. The mother had lead her 4 children to the mailbox, but only the mother crossed the road to get the mail. The mother then walked back to the house assuming all 4 children were following her. No one knows why the little girl did not follow. The pickup driver almost cleared her during his swerve, hitting her in the head with the last foot of his bumper on the right. She also died immediately.

    As these deaths demonstrate, when it is your time to go, you will go, ARE YOU READY TODAY?

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    Rita
    Comment on Safety vests (June 29th, 2015 at 19:28)

    Safety vests

    We’ve noticed several Amish children and also grown women wearing bright orange/yellow reflective safety vests as they walk or ride scooters along our rural roads. Haven’t seen any men wearing them, but it’s usually children walking home from school or women traveling on foot. The men are usually in the fields or in the buggies, not out walking the roads, I guess!

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      Comment on Use of safety vests by Amish (June 30th, 2015 at 10:12)

      Use of safety vests by Amish

      I don’t have data but my guess is they are becoming more common. At least over the time I have followed the Amish, around 11 years now, it seems you see more of them. What area are you in if I can ask?

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    Rita
    Comment on re Safety vests (June 30th, 2015 at 10:28)

    re Safety vests

    Erik, I’m in southern York County, PA, just across the Susquehanna River from Lancaster County. I’m the one who sent you pictures last year from the Airville Fire Company Mud Sale. Our area has a rapidly growing Amish community. There is an Amish school on our road less than 1/2 mile away and many local farms are being bought by Amish families. In fact, the farmland surrounding our house may someday be bought by the family down the road – they have already approached the owner about buying it when he’s ready to sell.

    • Of course, thanks Rita–I do remember those photos. I assume those are mostly families out of the main Lancaster settlement. I’d guess the land is at least somewhat more affordable than the sky-high acreage in Lancaster County.

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    Rita
    Comment on re Safety vests (June 30th, 2015 at 12:18)

    re Safety vests

    Also, Erik, we don’t have Rt 30 with the traffic, crowds of tourists and “touristy” attractions. No tourists here at all, unless they’re driving down Rt 74. to get to Lancaster. I would think that might have something to do with their decision to settle here.

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    Don Curtis
    Comment on Amish murder (June 30th, 2015 at 12:41)

    Amish murder

    Mark asked me to post this so that folks could pray. An elderly Amish couple, part of the Guthrie, Kentucky settlemnt were murdered in their beds late Saturday night/Sunday morning. Their home was entered. They were bound. The man, Amos Yoder was 79. He was bound and gagged and beaten to death. His wife was bound and beaten but survived. A load of the Guthrie youth were in Belle Center over the weekend and received the shocking news Sunday morning. Four of the youth were grandchildrenn of the couple. It was a terrible shock for everyone. Robbery is the suspected motive. Please pray for the family. Mark had the youth boys from his district about eight of them, plus the youth boys from Guthrie, another eight boys over to his house for a cookout, Friday evening.

    • Thanks for sharing this Don. Just horrible to think about. Another of our readers emailed me some links about this recently, where they describe the family as “Mennonite” (but these are Amish as you know, just the progressive electric New Order community).

      http://clarksvillenow.com/local/todd-county-man-died-from-blunt-force-trauma/

      http://www.wkdzradio.com/Todd-County-Murder-Assault-Investigation/21687321

      I hope people will say a prayer for the family and community, and for the wife’s recovery. Assuming this was a random attack, it must be especially frightening for the community.

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